How Nerds Get a Girlfriend


When most people think of a very nerdy guy, they usually don’t imagine him being able to get himself a girlfriend, unless he becomes rich or famous.

Yet, the fact is that millions of nerds across the world (who are just working in ordinary jobs, or are still at school or university) are able to get themselves a girlfriend.

How is that possible?

Aren’t women only interested in cool, confident, tough looking guys?

Don’t you have to be really masculine and alpha to get a girl?

Don’t geeky guys automatically get rejected by women for not being cool, tough or confident enough?

Not in all cases.

Here’s the thing…

Being masculine, alpha, confident, cool (depending on who is judging of course) and tough looking are things that women can and do feel attracted to.

That is true.

Yet, there are millions of women out there who will happily accept a nerd, or a nerdy looking guy as their lover, boyfriend or husband.

Why?

Here are the 4 common reasons why:

1. Some women see themselves as a bit of a nerd, even though they may not look like it.
2. If a nerd lacks confidence around a girl that he likes, he will use another quality of his that will often allow him to get the job done.
3. Some women only feel comfortable in a relationship with a guy who seems like he doesn’t have other options.
4. Like most women, she is easy to get if a guy is able to get things moving along with her.

Watch the video for an explanation of those 4 points above.

By the way…

What kind of man do you see yourself as?

– Cool guy
– Nice guy
– Good guy
– Bad boy
– Nerd
– Introvert
– Extrovert
– Intellectual
– Party animal
– Romantic
– Thinker
– Shy guy
– Confident guy
– Normal guy

Are you any one of those men, or a combination of them?

Maybe something even a little different to that?

No problem.

You are you.

That is what the world needs you to be.

…and it’s also what so many women out there will love you for.

You just need to have the confidence OR the determination to talk to women that you find attractive and get something going between you and her.

That is the reality we live in.

Some guys want to deny it because they want to believe that the only way to get a girlfriend is to be very good looking, rich or successful.

Why do guys want to believe that?

Believing that means they don’t have to face up to their fear of being rejected.

They can avoid talking to women by making up excuses and saying that women are too picky, it’s all too difficult and no girl will ever like them unless they are rich or have big muscles.

Yet, they are wrong.

So many women would not only LIKE them, but LOVE them.

For real.

That is the reality we live in.

If you want a girlfriend, you just need to have the confidence OR the determination to talk to women that you find attractive and get something going between you and her.

If you need help with exactly how to do that, then I recommend that you read my eBook The Flow, or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio:

https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html
https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-on-audio.html

The Flow is everything you need to know to go from, “Hello” to sex with a woman that you find attractive.

Of course, the conversation starters that I provide you with in The Flow aren’t, “Hello.”

Instead, when you read The Flow or listen to The Flow on Audio, you will learn my BEST EVER, tested, proven to work conversation starters that make women open up and want to talk to you right away.

You will also learn how to make a woman feel instantly attracted to you and increasingly attracted to you as you talk to her.

You will see that women really like you and want to be with you for reasons OTHER than how you look, or what you do for a living.

You will see that a woman likes you for how you make her feel as you talk to her.

It’s not possible to pick up every girl in the world with that approach, but you can attract and pick up MANY of the girls you meet, including the beautiful ones.

You can use that power to enjoy your choice of women, or settle down with your perfect girl.

By the way…

In The Flow, you will also learn how to connect with a woman and then get a first kiss, first date and sex.

It’s VERY easy to do.

It’s so damn easy to do that even nerds can do it.

Think about it…

If a nerd can do it, then you can do it too.

Don’t count yourself out of enjoying your choice of women because you think it’s not possible for you.

It is and it’s easy.

So, go ahead and enjoy your choice of women, or find the perfect girl to settle down with.

See you in the next video!

Cheers
Dan

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