When a guy isn’t aware of the 5 secrets in this video, he will usually lack confidence around attractive, single women and doubt his chances getting one of them to have sex or a relationship with him.
Without this knowledge, single, attractive women just won’t make sense to him at all.
For example: He will look at them, instantly feel attracted and want something to happen, but they will either not even notice him, or won’t show much or ANY interest if he talks to them.
As a result, he will assume that he is being rejected, or just isn’t good looking enough or rich enough for women that he finds attractive.
After a while, he might try his chances on a dating like Tinder or Bumble, but he will soon find that he doesn’t get matched up with attractive women, no matter how many of them he swipes on.
In some cases, a guy won’t even any matches at all, but if he does, it will usually be with women that he’s not attracted to.
So, naturally, he will conclude that he’s just not good looking or rich enough to attract and date pretty women.
Yet, as you will discover from this eye-opening video, there is another way to pretty, beautiful women.
A way in which you get instant results.
Watch the first secret in the video for a great example of how it can work.
Then, watch the other secrets to understand why so many pretty women are EASY to get in person, but are almost impossible to get on a dating app.
Additionally, why SOME pretty women even go for guys who aren’t on the same level in terms of looks at they are.
Guys who are just average looking, below average looking and in some cases, what some people may refer to as being ugly.
Most guys never find this stuff out, so they go through their life believing that they’re good enough for pretty women, even though other guys who look like them, look similar to them or who don’t even look as good as them, are easily able to get themselves a pretty girlfriend or wife.
The sooner you understand how female to male attraction really works, the sooner you will be enjoying sex, love and relationships with pretty women of your choosing.
It really is possible.
Watch all of the video and you will know what MOST guys will never find out about single women.
Use that to your advantage.
Start making moves and enjoying your choice of pretty women now.
Other guys are doing it and you can too.
By the way…
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Personally speaking, when I created The Flow, I went from having to approach 10 women in a night to get a phone number, to only having to approach 1 or 2 women in a night to get a phone number, kiss or sex.
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I did it for 10 years and enjoyed my choice of pretty women and then decided to settle down with my perfect girl.
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A very small percentage of men know about the secrets that I’m going to share with you now regarding single women and as a result they feel confident around attractive women they know their secrets yet the vast majority of men do not know the secrets that I’m going to share with you now and as a result they lack confidence around single women the man just doesn’t know where he stands with her does she like me is she interested in sex is she interested in a relationship she’s not making it obvious and as a result he doesn’t feel confident about his chances of getting her out in a date for example so let’s begin with the first secret that single women hide from men most act like they’re hard to get but are secretly easy a great example of this is the study that was done at Florida State University what happened is that the researchers got a bunch of students to approach other students one at a time and the physical attractiveness of the male and female approaches ranged from slightly unattractive to moderately attractive so in other words the students doing the approaching weren’t really good-looking that were just average looking or slightly below average looking so here’s what the approach has said whether there are a man or a woman I’d be noticing you around campus I find you to be very attractive then the approach I asked one of the following questions would you go out with me tonight would you come over to my apartment tonight would you go to bed with me tonight so in other words I’ve been noticing you around campus I find you to be very attractive would you come over to my apartment tonight here are the results of the study 56% of the women said yes when the guy asked would you go out with me tonight now she didn’t know anything else about him other than him saying I’ve been noticing you around campus I find you to be very attractive would you go out with me tonight 56% of the women said yes whereas 50% of the men said yes with the other question would you come over to my apartment tonight 6% of women said yes 69 percent of men said yes and finally would you go to bed with me tonight none of the women said whereas 75% of the men said yes in other words women don’t want to immediately say yes to sex but more than half will immediately say yes to going on a date even though they don’t know anything about the guy that’s a good example because if guys saw those girls walking around on their own the girls would almost certainly be displaying body language that suggested they didn’t want to be approached or that there would be hard to get yet 56 percent of them immediately said yes to going out on a date with a guy who said I’ve been noticing you around campus I find you to be very attractive would you go out with me tonight and they said yes the thing is though the results of that study don’t necessarily mean that a guy should go into a shopping mall and walk up to a woman shopping and say hey I’ve been noticing around the shopping mall I think you’re very attractive would you go out with me tonight because that’s a different environment right in a university environment for example there is a certain level of safety for the woman because the guy is a fellow student right if he asked for her number or if she goes out in a date with him there is protection because they’re part of the same University yet in a shopping mall pretty much everyone there is a stranger right she doesn’t know who the man is who has said that he’s been noticing her around the shopping mall does that mean that he’s a stalker what has he been doing has he been following her around and so on so when a man is in different social environments such as a bar club house party a shopping mall a restaurant and so on he needs to use a different approach right it’s not gonna be hey I’ve been noticing you around I think you’re very attractive will you go out with me tonight obviously that line isn’t gonna work in a bar because she’s already out that night so that particular line would need to be slightly modified in order to make it work in a bar environment for example he could say hey I noticed you from across the bar you look very attractive so I thought I’d come over and say hi by saying it that way he’s not asking her out right away which wouldn’t make any sense of course instead he’s starting the conversation in a charming way and can then make her feel sparks of attraction for him by flirting with her he can then connect with her when the time is right he can take things to the next level such as getting her phone number kissing her maybe having sex that night or if it’s just a phone number he can set up a date when he calls her then they can kiss and maybe have sex on the first second or third date and a dating relationship or even a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship will most likely begin from there so each situation that you meet women in is going to be slightly different yet despite the differences in the approach that you need to take the key lesson here is that many women will act as though they’re hard to get when they’re not right the same thing applies to women in bars many women will sit around or stand around and they will seem like they’re hard to get and there are many reasons for that one of which I’ll discuss in secret number four but before we get to that one of the reasons is that in a bar environment a woman doesn’t want to make herself seem too approachable to guys who had drunk right she doesn’t want the drunk guys who are building up their courage by drinking lots of alcohol to see that she’s open and friendly and they can come over and talk to her instead she wants a guy who has the confidence to come over and talk to her even though she’s not making it obvious that she wants a guy to come over and talk to her additionally another reason is that if she looks too open and eager and she wants guys to approach her she may get guys approaching her who don’t actually really like her and will only want to have sex with her once or may just want to make her feel attracted build up their confidence and then go talk to another woman so many women will act as though they’re hard to get when secretly they’re easy to get or fairly easy to get if a guy just gives himself the chance if he gets over there has an interaction with her crater spark and gets something going between him and her number two most have a fantasy list of requirements for a man but don’t actually stick to it in real life one thing that I want to make 100% clear is that I’m not talking about dating apps like tinder or bumble on dating apps like the a woman usually has all the power right for example with tinder if she’s in a big city tens of thousands of guys are swiping on her hoping to get a match and all she has to do is go through the app and swipe on guys that are her ideal type or her fantasy type fantasy list of requirements and she’s almost certainly going to get matches then if she wants to she can chat with that guy and if the guy knows how to get her out in a date he can organize a date with her yet the reality is that most of the women who have used tinder have never actually gone on a date as a result of the app I actually got a comment recently from a guy who ran a bit of a test on a dating app where he put himself down as a CEO and said that he liked to buy lots of cars and he was into collecting cars and some other thing that identified him as being a rich guy and he said that he got loads of likes on that compared to his exact same profile with the exact same photos and him saying that he was a manager in sales that’s the reality with dating apps because a woman usually has all the power she can just select from the tens of thousands of guys who are hoping to get a chance with her yet although many women definitely do use dating apps to go on dates most don’t additionally most of the users of tinder are men so a woman usually has so many options that guys who would be able to get a chance with her in person aren’t ever seen or aren’t ever selected now compare that to talking to a woman in person and a guy has a much higher chance of getting an instant yes compared to waiting around and hoping that he’ll be selected out of tens of thousands of guys who are swiping on a woman on a dating app so in this age of dating apps a lot of guys feel insecure around single women they feel as though every single woman is using tinder and Bumble to go on loads of dates and she can select from all these top amazing men who are totally successful and I’ve got all these traits that she’s looking for yet the reality is that most women don’t go on dates via dating apps and number two most women don’t actually feel confident about being with a guy who is so successful or so attractive with all these top-tier qualities of course some pretty women are very confident and they go for tall successful handsome and rich men but some pretty women go for normal everyday guys the reality is that some pretty women feel so much more at home and confident with a normal everyday guy compared to a very handsome or successful man because she worries that the very handsome successful man might not be faithful to her or that he will be faithful and she’ll fall in love with him but he will then get bored of her and dump her because she’s not pretty enough to maintain his interest not every pretty woman has that insecurity of course but quite a lot of them do which is why many of them happily get into relationships with and even marry normal everyday guys additionally some pretty women even date guys who others may see as being scruffy but she will love him based on his personality and how he makes her feel some pretty women also go for men who are overweight or bald even though the guy isn’t very successful in life not all pretty women do that but some do the reason why is that so many women feel so much more comfortable and at home with a normal everyday guy who makes her feel attracted for reasons other than these top tier totally high stylist qualities like he’s the CEO of this he is the owner of all these yachts he does this he does that and so on most women just don’t feel confident in their ability to hold a guy like that down additionally they don’t see themselves as being the sort of woman who will live that type of lifestyle she is just a normal everyday girl yes she is pretty but like most pretty women she ends up with guys who are just normal guys her and a guy paying rent and living together her in a guy’s saving up for a deposit on their home and eventually getting a house together eventual getting married and then having children and so on some pretty girls are just normal everyday girls and will happily hook up with get into a relationship with and even marry a normal everyday guy of course don’t get me wrong there are some pretty girls and beautiful women who have extremely high standards in real life and they will stick to those standards no matter what the guy has to be what she sees as very good-looking or very good-looking and rich otherwise she won’t be interested at all if she sees a guy as being ugly below average looking or even just average looking then she won’t be interested likewise with some women like that if the guy is not rich or very successful in life then she just won’t be interested those women definitely do exist so don’t get me wrong I’m not saying that every pretty woman and every beautiful woman will go for a normal everyday guy because they won’t for example you may have seen some of the reality shows called wags right wives and girlfriends of sports stars and athletes or the rich wives of this place in that place there are some women who have really high standards when it comes to men but the reality is that some of those wags women definitely are attractive but many of them really aren’t super amazing attractive girls especially when they take off their makeup instead most women like that have very specific standards when it comes to men and only want to be with a successful athlete so they go out of their way to be around those men and try to get one to marry them that’s their thing yet the majority of pretty girls out there don’t see themselves as being one of the 0.001 percent of women who end up with a high status sports star a celebrity a CEO and so on the girl might sometimes fantasize about that just like a guy might sometimes fantasize about being with a certain model or whatever but it doesn’t mean that she’s gonna stick to that in real life and it doesn’t mean that a guy has to be high status in society be some big shot in order to get a chance with her the reality is that some pretty girls go for guys like that but some pretty girls go for normal everyday guys so what happens for a lot of single guys these days is that they see the way that women behave on dating apps or they look at the results that they haven’t been getting on dating apps and then they think well if I can’t even get a match out of all these thousands of girls how is a girl in real life gonna react to me he may think do I have to approach a thousand girls before I can get myself a girlfriend no girl is gonna like me because I don’t get any likes on tinder I don’t get any girls contacting me on Bumble why should they want to talk to me in person they obviously don’t find me attractive yet a small percentage of men know the secret that I’m gonna tell you now whereas the vast majority of men do not know it and many of those men go their entire life never knowing it this secret of female to male attraction which applies to the majority of women out there including most beautiful and pretty women is that in many cases you can make a woman feel intense attraction for you as you talk to her even if you’re not her usual type or the sort of guy that she assumed she would go for you can do this as you talk to her by displaying personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women such as confidence charisma charm being a bit of a challenge being emotionally masculine flirting with her to create a sexual vibe and so on of course it’s not possible for a guy to pick up every woman in the world but he can attract and pick up many women including beautiful and pretty women one of the reasons why this is possible and why it happens all over the world is that although many women do have a fantasy list of requirements for a man they don’t always stick to it in real life so many guys don’t ever discover this secret about attracting women so they go through their life believing that they’re not good enough for pretty women even though other guys who look like them who look similar to them or who don’t even look as good as them are able to get themselves a pretty girlfriend or wife the way that it works is that when you make a woman feel sparks of attraction for you in person she starts looking at you with attraction in her eyes her perception of you changes she starts looking at you and thinking there’s something about this guy I like him he’s cute he’s sexy I don’t normally go for guys like him but there’s something about him I really like him a similar thing can happen to guys but it usually takes a little bit longer than it takes for girls for example a guy may meet a girl that he’s not initially attracted to but when he spends time with her she grows on him then he really starts to find her attractive he looks at her and he thinks I really like this girl I really want to be with her and he falls in love with her he has a relationship with her even though initially he wasn’t that attracted to her right she grew on him now as I said it usually takes a lot longer for a guy to experience that compared to a woman when you’re talking to a woman that can happen within the first one to two minutes with most women all it usually takes is one to two minutes of conversation where you display personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women and she feels sparks of attraction for you this is where so many single guys get confused because they hear that women don’t place as much importance on a man’s physical appearance as men place on a woman’s physical appearance but that doesn’t seem to make sense because women say that guy’s good-looking he’s sexy he’s handsome so what’s going on well what’s going on is that when a man can make a woman feel attracted to him for reasons other than his physical appearance such as him being confident emotionally masculine flirting with her being charming or charismatic she starts looking at his physical appearance in a positive light she starts thinking well I don’t normally go for bald guys but I find this guy attractive I don’t normally go for guys who look like this or that but there’s something about him I really like him so for the single guys watching this video and even for the guys who are in a relationship with a woman and she isn’t feeling attracted to him the way that she used to just understand that you can make women feel attracted to you as you talk to them and interact with them and when you do that a woman looks at you as being attractive appealing and desirable additionally this is a feeling and a perception of you that can continue throughout an entire lifetime relationship or marriage finally one other thing about this secret is that you may have heard some women say about their boyfriend or their husband I wasn’t initially attracted to him but once we started talking I felt attracted to him I really liked him we started dating we got into a relationship we fell in love and we’ve been happy ever since in other words in many cases not in all cases but in many cases a guy does not have to look like a woman’s usual type in order to attract her hook up with her get into a relationship with her and even marry her now some guys will say yeah it’s money the guy must be rich but the majority of people aren’t rich right the majority of couples pay rent together they save up to buy a house together they pay bills together they work and they’re just normal everyday people I don’t write it off as ice looks or it’s money right yes money can attract women looks can attract women but you know what else can attract women when you interact with them and display personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women such as confidence charisma emotional masculinity flirting humor and so on that doesn’t mean that a guy can pick up every woman in the world but it does mean that a guy can access beautiful pretty women who go for normal everyday guys if he’s a normal everyday guy if he’s more than that then great but if he’s a normal everyday guy like most guys who end up with a pretty woman then he can make her feel attracted to him as he talks to her because although she may have a fantasy list of requirements for a man she doesn’t actually stick to it in real life instead like many women she goes with how she feels so if a normal everyday guy makes her feel attracted to him in person then she opens up to potentially going on a date with him having sex with him or having a in ship with him okay the third secret about single women most really like it when they feel the need to impress a guy to be accepted by him what usually happens with women and the dating process it’s usually guys trying to hopefully impress the woman to get a chance with her right the guy is on his best behavior he’s being extra nice extra polite he is offering her things he is trying really hard to hopefully be accepted by her yet what a small percentage of men know is that most single women really like it when they feel the need to impress a guy to be accepted by him and that even continues into a relationship now don’t get me wrong right it’s not about treating a woman like crap treating her badly taking her for granted in a relationship it’s not about telling a woman that you don’t care about her in the dating process ignoring her saying how to give a crap about you and so on it’s not about that instead just think about what happens with a woman when a man feels the need to impress her and hopefully be accepted by her is she treating him like crap or is she just giving him the sense that he needs to impress her to be accepted by her who made up that rule who said that she was the one who could do that well the man allowed it to happen by him not taking on that role not taking on the role of the one who is selecting and allowing right he is taking on the role of the one who is hoping and trying yet most single women love it when a guy is a good guy and treats her well but makes her feel like she needs to impress him to be accepted by him that usually results in a woman trying harder to impress the guy by being nicer doing nice things for him being khuda being more feminine and so on then when the guy accepts of her and allows her to be his girlfriend she feels lucky she feels special she feels like the chosen one right just like a guy feels when he gets accepted by a girl that he’s been trying to impress yet what happens is that when a guy puts himself in the position where he’s trying to impress a girl to hopefully get a chance with her and then she reluctantly gives him a chance and he then tries harder and harder to impress her and maintain her interest she loses respect and attraction for him and the relationship falls apart whereas when it’s the other way around where the girl is trying hard to impress the guy being a good girl being more feminine being more fun and nice and the guys treating her well then the relationship feels amazing for both of them number four most love sex but have to act like they don’t for various reasons one of the main reasons why is that most guys don’t feel as though they can trust a woman who is really into sex and is chasing it if a woman shows a lot of interest in sex and openly talks about it a guy might think that she is [ __ ] and untrustworthy on the other hand if she holds out too long during the dating phase or seems uninterested in sex a guy may stop pursuing her and find another woman so if she openly talks about sex seems really into it and is chasing it most guys will look at her as being a [ __ ] if she holds back and doesn’t have sex most guys will look at her as being a prude and so the sweet spot for a woman is to not seem like she’s really into sex not seem like she would love to have sex but instead to show a guy that she can control herself if he has a relationship with her he can rely on her to control herself to not be one of those women who go around openly talking about sex chasing it and acting horny all the time so what happens for a lot of single guys who don’t understand this particular secret well is that they’ll see that women don’t react to them in the same way that they react to women right a guy will look at a woman and immediately feel attracted to her immediately say yes or no in his mind about whether or not he would have sex with her he will look at her when she’s walking along the street or wherever she may be he’ll be feeling attracted and will want something to happen yet women walk through the world as though they don’t even see guys right they’re just walking along she goes to a cafe she orders her coffee she sits down she’s not sitting down and looking at a guy’s butt as he walks past like a guy will do when a woman walks past why she’s just sitting there playing with her phone or doing whatever she’s doing keeping to herself and not looking around as though she’s hoping to get some sex so a small percentage of men know that they go through life not expecting women to react to them in the same way that they react to women they understand why women have to behave in that way right a woman can’t show that she really likes sex otherwise most guys would feel as though they couldn’t trust her if they got into a relationship with her and that’s how she behaved out in public number five most act like they are happy to be single even though many of them are secretly miserable about it once again women do this to not seem low-value cheap and easy she doesn’t want to go through her everyday life interacting with guys showing that she’s really keen and trying to get herself a boyfriend if a girl is behaving like that most guys will look at her as being low value or they’ll look at her as being weird because most girls don’t behave like that especially the girls that he really likes right the attractive girls who are used to men making the mistake of trying hard to hopefully impress her to get a chance with her don’t behave as though they’re hoping to get a boyfriend they don’t go around looking at guys and talking to them and hoping that a guy will like them instead the majority of single women will behave as though they’re totally fine without a guy they couldn’t care less but the reality is that when she goes home and she’s alone in her bed or if she catches up with a friend who is happy in a relationship she feels left out she wants to have a boyfriend but she’s struggling to get one the thing is though if a guy looked at her when she was waiting in a line at Starbucks or if she was sitting alone in a cafe or if she was at a bar with friends she wouldn’t necessarily look like a girl who is hoping and he’s desperate to get herself a boyfriend she will almost certainly just display body language suggests she can’t even see the men in the room she doesn’t even care about the men when in fact she’s hoping to get herself a boyfriend she’s hoping that a normal guy will come over and say hello to her there’ll be a spark between him and her and they can start dating and have a relationship so what happens for a lot of single guys is that they go through their life and they see women that they find attractive but because the woman isn’t displaying open interested body language right away before he has approached her he will assume that she must have a boyfriend or that she wouldn’t want him to come over and say hello yet the reality is as you saw from the study near the start of the video a little more than half of the women said yes when a guy immediately asked them out even though they didn’t know anything about him in other environments where you can meet women if you want to get the same or better result then what you need to do is have a bit of an interaction with a woman first where you make her feel attracted to you by displaying personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women with most women you only need to do that for one to two minutes some women require longer that’s for sure but with most women all it requires is a 1 to 2 min a conversation where you make her feel a spark for you and she will feel attracted to you she will open up to the interaction and she will say yes when you ask for her phone number by the way if you’re one of the guys who finds it difficult to walk up and talk to women or if you don’t know what to say to make women feel attracted to you if you don’t know how to connect with them immediately and make them want to give you their phone number or kiss you go out and a date with you and so on then I recommend that you read my ebook the flow or listen to the audiobook version the flow on audio when you read the flow or listen to the flow on audio you will learn my best ever conversation starters ways to make women feel immediately attracted to you ways to make women feel increasingly attracted to you as you talk to them how to connect with women how to make women want to contribute to the conversation and get to know you how to initiate touch in a way that she wants and welcomes how to get a phone number had it when he shared a first kiss how to initiate sex on the first night or how to get her out on a date with you and initiate a kiss and sex the first date or if you want to wait longer than that second third fourth day it’s totally up to you all you have to do is follow the simple steps of the flow and you and a woman flow smoothly from one step to the next it’s the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend one final point that I want to make for you in this video is that many times throughout your single life you will meet an attractive girl a pretty woman who is interested in you but if you’re not able to pick up on the subtle signs that she’s attracted or if you don’t have the confidence to move things forward from a conversation to a phone number date and so on then you will miss out on so many opportunities with pretty women beautiful women who really were interested in you so it’s important to understand why women behave in the ways that they do so you don’t have to feel insecure around them instead you can feel confident knowing that they’re behaving in a certain way because they have to you don’t need to lose confidence because of that instead you can feel more confident knowing that you’re one of the small percentage of men who actually understands what’s going on you can then start making moves right you can ask a girl out you can ask for her phone number you can move things forward and before you know it you’ll be having sex or a relationship with a woman of your choosing.